JCK
Jennifer - Christy - Kelly
Justice from Courts for Kids

LIGHT A CANDLE

Lighting candles for children is a wonderful way to show them support. In some cases the children might not be able to see you or spend time with you, but lighting a candle for them at an event or just in your own yard...can show them you are there.

Our judicial system makes the rules in which they expect our children to live by. When children are thrust into a divorce or separation situation they are confused and scared before the system even gets started tearing their world apart. Our system seems to turn a blind eye to the lies that a parent will tell against the other.

Don't assume our system is prepared to do what is right for your children. They are only prepared to do what the attorneys decide between the two of them is right.

As hard is it is to imagine, decisions for our children are usually made depending on the amount of money a parent has and the amount of pull one attorney may have over the other.

As you make your way through JCK, please take note that all events we do named in some way with JCK, is for the benefit of the children. JCK was started to help our founder's grandchildren know their other family was still here and loved them very much. It has progressed into a very effective way to let all children of divorce and/or separation know their other side of the family is out here and loves them very much.

Keep them Happy! Let them have BOTH Parents!

We would love the opportunity to advertise your candle lighting event. If you are interested in preparing an event, please contact us at three3sides@aol.com to give us the details. We will be happy to help you plan the event...as well as advertise it right here on our site. Candle lightings are usually held at dusk and have a very positive effect on those who attend. It is also very possible to bring awareness to your area about this critical problem for our children of divorce/separation. KIDS REALLY DO NEED BOTH PARENTS

At 60 years old, our founder has come to realize that unless a child is in physical harm's way they can handle most anything you throw at them. After all, you are the one that gave them Mom or Dad, why punish them now by taking Mom or Dad away cause you don't want the other person anymore.

Maybe your child should come first and their rights should be recognized before you make up your mind to dispose of their other parent and/or grandparents.

The rights of the parents should come second, but they should never, not come at all. We all should have rights, and all should share in those rights as a family, even if you are no longer together. Your child needs you BOTH, and you BOTH need your child.

Can you be the person your child needs you to be? Can you let the other parent be the person they need to be? Can you close your eyes and try to put yourself in your child's heart and make the right decision for YOUR child and not for yourself?

Help your child help you. Let them love you as much as they do by allowing them to have both parents and all grandparents in their lives.

JUSTICE FROM COURTS FOR KIDS - LET'S LIGHT UP THE WORLD TO SHOW SUPPORT