I believe we're going backwards. I cannot believe the way the governments; states and cities handle these custody suites. I wonder if everyone is blind that they can't see what is happening right before their eyes. How many (women mainly) manipulate the system and live high on the hog while they jump from man to man using them to get pregnant so they will be secure for the next 18 years. Many men don't even know what has hit them while these women entice them in their little webs. What happens the children get hurt; the children are the ones who suffer the most. They grow up and do exactly the same thing and each generation it gets worse. As a child, I thought that men didn't have feelings; the way women talked about them; they were all just dogs waiting to pounce on women; abuse them in every way possible and then go on their merry way. Women have to learn that men do have feelings and are actually more compassionate toward children than a good percent of woman.
I don't want to bash women and I don't believe that all women are that way. I also believe there are abusive men as well. But somehow or other we're going to have to turn it all around. People in general need to realize that they have to stop the trend of brutalizing each other; especially in front of the children bashing the other parent which totally distorts the child's feelings. One parent having custody may seem like a good idea but they need both biological parents if possible to grow to be loving, caring, compassionate people themselves. I've seen the family break up all over this country and it totally breaks my heart that most people are living with so much pain, revenge, jealousy, anger it is destroying the world. The government could make up 100's of laws; put millions of innocent people behind bars. But after it's all said and done we all loose. Liz Taylor |
