“Best Interest of the Child”

We have done a lot of research on this subject…and we have come to the conclusion that it is a broad term that allows a judge to do as he pleases with your child.

Here are a few things we have found out.

•  When a judge makes a decision that involves a minor child…he only has to say… “Best Interest of the Child”. He does not have to give any other reason for taking a child from one parent or the other.

•  If your child is kept from you for the reason of “Best Interest of the Child” You do not have a right to talk to the judge face to face to get answers as to why he believes lies over your truth.

•  A judge does not have to check out verbal testimony provided in court…even when it is so blatantly obvious that tricks are being used…and lies are being told. Instead of getting to the bottom of the truth…he only has to use “Best Interest of the Child”.

About the Judge

• A judge is a person who sets in a chair behind a big desk and listens to testimony. He is not supposed to know you…the opposing side…or the child.
• In most cases he knows both attorneys…but is not supposed to show any partiality.
• If your case involves children…the following is the painful truth.

1. The judge was not a part of bringing your child into this world.
2. The judge was not there the day your child was born.
3. The judge is not your child's blood.
4. The judge did not bring your child home from the hospital.
5. The judge did not change your child's diapers.
6. The judge did not rock your baby to sleep.
7. The judge did not get up at night with your child.
8. The judge did not fall asleep on the couch with your baby on his chest.
9. The judge was not there for that first tooth.
10. The judge was not there for that first step.
11. The judge was not there to hear that first “Mommie” or “Daddy”.
12. The judge was not there when your child was hospitalized.
13. The judge was not there for that broken arm.
14. The judge was not there when your child had to have stitches.
15. The judge did not sleep on the floor of the hospital with your child…cause she would not get in the bed.
16. The judge has never gone to bed wondering if your child is ok.
17. The judge was not there when you went to jail so many times for trying to see your kids.
18. The judge was not there when your ex told you…that you would never see them again.
19. The judge wouldn't know your child if he saw them on the street.
20. The likelihood of the judge even knowing your child's name are slim and none.

But the judge has the right to listen to a short session of testimony and take your children away from you…BECAUSE of…”Best Interest of the Child”

The judge can give YOUR children to another man in the ”Best Interest of the Child” without giving you or your child another thought. WHY? Because he can!

You do not have to be proven unfit to lose your parental rights.

• This is against Federal Law.
• It is against the Constitution.
• It is morally wrong.
• And, it is against God.

As long as the phrase ”Best Interest of the Child” is used in the judges decision…the judge does not have to justify why he is taking away your rights to your children…and your children's rights to you.

Who ever said…life is fair?

• Mommie can keep your children from you on visitation weekends.
• She can keep them from talking to you on the phone.
• She can keep them away for weeks and months at a time…without any repercussions.
• She can keep them from you with one single statement…they are sick…they cannot go with you this weekend.
• SHE CAN KEEP THEM FROM YOU LONG ENOUGH TO CHARGE YOU WITH ABANDOMENT…AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO STOP IT.

• She can post no trespassing signs on her property…you go to jail if you try to see your kids.
• She can run every delivery person away by pointing out the no trespassing signs and making sure they know they will go to jail if they come back on the property.
• She can destroy any and every letter and card you send to the house for your children.
• She can tell your children that you do not love them anymore…or you would be there.
• She can tell your children anything she wants to tell them…and there is nothing you can do about it.

You can try to even the scorecard…go ahead!

• You can take the police to the house to pick them up…and all she has to do is not answer the door.
• You can make police reports…and they go into file 13.
• You can call your attorney until the cows come home…and all he is gonna say is…wait till the next visitation weekend and see what happens…and he will tell you this each and every time you call him…over and over and over.
• You can take her back to court…and because she is in contempt…you have a right to do that…but all they will focus on is child support. If your support is up to date…he will tell her not to interfere with you and your children…else she will be in contempt…not that he will do anything about it…but just that she will be in contempt.
• God forbid you are behind on child support…cause at that point in the “Best Interest of the Child” you can be suspended from seeing them until you get it caught up…and never mind the judge doing anything about the contempt on her for not allowing you access to your children…no one cares about you… and they do not care about the children either…and we can prove that right here and now…cause it is NOT in the “Best Interest of the Child” for them to lose you.

“THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD”

If you are going to separate their world…then for goodness sakes…allow them to have as normal of a life as you can…after all you are the one splitting up their world…so don't make them pay for it. 

• Allow them both parents
• Give them freedom to love both parents
• Give them the freedom to talk about either parent in the presence of the other parent
• Allow them guidance of both parents
• Never throw a monkey wrench between your child and the security of knowing they are loved by both parents
• Allow them to grow up in the middle of both sides of their family…you may be divorcing your spouse…but your child is still kin to your ex and his or her family.
• Allow them to bring presents home…don't make your child do without…just because you and the ex are no longer together.
• Allow your ex access to school records and medical records.
• If your child is going to be in a play or program…or even PTA meetings…make sure the spouse knows when they are.

If your ex is not going to be a good parent after you separate…let he or she shoot his or her own self in the foot…don't do it for them.

BELIEVE ME…IF YOUR EX IS NOT GOING TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT BY YOUR CHILD…HE OR SHE WILL DO ALL THE WRONG THINGS WITHOUT YOUR HELP. IF YOUR EX MAKES EVERY EFFORT TO BE A GOOD PARENT TO YOUR CHILD…LET IT HAPPEN…YOUR CHILD WILL BE THE BETTER FOR IT. 

YOUR CHILD WILL HAVE PLENTY OF REASONS TO EITHER HAVE A VERY GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR OTHER PARENT…OR NOT

REMEMBER… YOU ARE THE ONE THAT LAID DOWN WITH THIS PERSON AND TOGETHER YOU BECAME CO-PARENTS…IT IS NOT UP TO YOU TO TAKE THE OTHER PARENT AWAY FROM YOUR CHILD. 

YOUR CHILD IS A VERY INTELLIGENT PERSON IN LITTLE PEOPLE'S CLOTHING…DON'T BE FOOLED BY THEIR SIZE…THEY LOOK…WATCH…& LISTEN TO EVERYTHING AROUND THEM…THEY WATCH YOU AS WELL AS THE ONE YOU ARE TRYING TO KEEP FROM THEM. YOU TOO WILL LOSE IF YOU MAKE THESE DECISIONS FOR THEM…THEY WILL ONE DAY WANT THE TRUTH…DON'T BE ON THE WRONG END OF THE INFORMATION THEY FIND. YOU WILL REGRET IT.

ON THEIR OWN THEY WILL MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION FOR THEIR FEELINGS FOR THE BOTH OF YOU. 

I have tried to compile as much information about in the “Best Interest of the Child” from every state in our union…click categories on the right of this screen to check out this information.