"FOSTER PARENTS"
For the
Right Reason. Give Them
the Love and Security They Need.
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- Children Deserve Both Parents - When at all Possible
- Make Sure You Have Good Child Care
- Never Leave Your Children Alone
- Put Your Children First
- Treat Your Child as the Gift They Are
- Remember They Need Family
- Love Your Children
- Become Involved
- Step up to the Plate
- Be Sure Before You Report
- Foster Parents Sometimes Adopt Your Children
- Foster Parents Are Paid to Keep Your Children
- Blood Should Matter
- When at all Possible
- Never Give Up
- Protect Your Children from ALL Harm
- Put Your Children's Feeling on Top of the Priority List
- Never Under-estimate Your Ability to Parent
- Your Children Need you, Don't Let Them Down
- Never Make your Children Pay for Your Anger
- Give Your Children More Then You Take for Yourself
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The best way to keep your children out of the hands of Foster Care...is to never put your children in a positation to be taken.
If you have a story about Foster Care/Parents you are willing to share with the world, please contact us three3sides@aol.com .
We want all families to know that Foster Care is necessary in some cases...but please remember that no matter what the reason...children miss their parents when they are removed from their home.
We admit there are times when children need to be removed from a bad situation. We admit that there are occasions when parents aren't putting their children first. We also admit there are some parents that do not need to be around their children EVER. In those cases...Foster Care may become necessary.
Our children are the future. Help make their future brighter by doing everything you need to do to safely raise your own children.
A CPS worker is someone who works in the community on behalf of the abused children. They do not work for free...they are paid a salary. Their offices also receive funds from our Federal Government for the children that are removed from their families. Also, keep in mind that money also comes from the Federal Government for each child that is adopted into a new family. CPS can remove your children and send them straight to Foster Care. TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN!
We believe that CPS should be doing as much to keep families together...as they do to tear them apart.
A PERSONAL NOTE FROM OUR FOUNDER
My name is Bessie Hudgins; I am the Founder/President of Three Sides to Every Story, Inc.
As I prepare to turn sixty one, I find myself deeply involved in the world of family and juvenile courts over my grandchildren. Between my son and I we are constantly trying to figure out the best route to take to secure a place in his children's lives.
As I began to see the devastation for children and parents as well as grandparents all over the country, due to the un-family court system, I decided to start this organization.
I have lived my adult life as a survivor of many of the very things that we are trying to educate people about, to help them understand what the effects of these actions are.
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Parental Alienation
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Wrongful Adoption
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Abandonment by One Parent
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Taken from the Other Parent
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Abused as a Child
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Molested by an Uncle
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Growing Up Without My Siblings
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Running Away from Home at the Young Age of 15
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Teen Pregnancy – Giving Birth all Alone
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Reuniting with My Mother
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Locating My Father – He was Deceased – Horrible Way to Find a Parent
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Finding 6 Siblings after I was Grown - I didn't even know They Existed
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Trying to Fit in, in a World that didn't give Two Hoots if I Survived
This list could go on and on, but I think by now you get the point. I hope by opening up my own story and sharing the experiences of my childhood, I can help others with what I have learned from it.
We look forward to working with you to share information with each other that will help to bring these horrible actions against children to their knees and end this war on our nation's children.
TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN - IT'S THE RIGHT THING TO DO! |
