Married w/Children

I am sure there are lots of different opinions on this subject, but to a Mother and Grandmother being married with children is one of the most fulfilling and enjoyable parts of her life.

We would like to ask you to close your eyes and think of the most peaceful thing you have ever been a part of…now…while thinking and being very peaceful…think now of holding a precious baby close to you…one that is your blood and you love with all your heart. Now add the joy of a loving husband or wife…and a marriage that can with stand ANY and EVERYTHING . Now keep adding…this time add parents that become grandparents when you bring that precious baby into your world. You have created a world for an innocent baby that will take them from childhood to adulthood…with all the love and care that a WHOLE family can give to a baby.

Being happily married…having children…staying married…raising your children together…growing old together…and leaving your family to remember you when you are gone… is the perfect life.

We wish this for anyone who wants it. We also unwish this for all that do not. We would like to bring to the attention of all possible partners in this world…if you do not want to marry…have children…and be true to a mate forever…then…please…please…please…do not do any of the above.

This has got to be one of the hardest pages I have written thus far. If most marriages end within seven years, and most of them have children…then we have a world full of very insecure children…who become very insecure adults…and they too pass that on to their children. Gosh…all we have are very insecure people that do not have a clue what to do next to fix their lives.

We would like to offer a solution…pick your mate very carefully…have children only when you are ready to care for them…and put them first.

Try to ALWAYS put yourself in the other person's place…when things are changing for any reason.

If you do not want to live the rest of your life in turmoil…choose carefully…walk gently through your life when you share it with someone…and above EVERYTHING …

DO NOT MAKE YOUR CHILDREN PAY FOR THE MISTAKES OF YOU AND THEIR OTHER PARENT.

Children are a gift from God…sent here for you to raise and teach. They depend on YOU for EVERYTHING . Do not disappoint them.

You are one half of their being…their other parent is also one half of their being…let it BE.