“ Parental Alienation ”
“ Parental Alienation ” – “ Mental Abuse”
The act of brainwashing a child is a crime against their well-being. |
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When you provide the following for a child:
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Food, (the things they need and the special things they like).
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Water, (and drinks they like better over water).
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Bed, (warm and comfortable – with the things they like to sleep with).
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Clothing, (necessary items and special wants and desires).
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Medicine, (whether over the counter or a trip to the doctor).
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Toys, (for occasions and for no reason at all).
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TV, (let them watch the things they like the most).
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Attention, (listen to them, hug on them, and praise them).
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Special Attractions, (like the movies, skating, birthday parties).
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Family, (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins).
They depend on you for EVERYTHING. They will in turn provide you with the following:
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Food all over their face and surroundings.
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Liquid poured/spilled all over you, in your seats and all over the floor.
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In your bed either from the beginning or when they wet their own.
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Their clothes will always find the dirt and get torn, even the things they really wanted.
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Refuse to take the medicine – spit it our – or hide it when you turn your back for just a second.
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Beg for a certain toy, only to find that after playing with it for a few hours or days, they are tired of it.
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Pitch a fit to watch something and once they get you to agree, they are out of the room playing with the toys that you bought them cause they just had to have them.
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The attention these little people give you back is beyond any words I have found to describe. They give the best hugs and kisses you have ever been the recipient of, and they will tell you stories that will keep you mesmerized for hours.
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When you are with them at special occasions, you will see things in your child that you have been teaching them and you feel they never learn…however when you watch them with their family and friends, you will know you are getting through to them.
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When you allow your child to love and spend time with – Grandparents – Aunts – Uncles – Cousins…their world and yours will be the better for it. They learn things from all the other members of their family that you may not be able to share with them, like experiences of a grandparent due to their age and love beyond your wildest imagine for a child that is part of them.
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When you provide these things for your child, you gain their trust…and once they trust you…you have the ability to commit “ Parental Alienation ” – “ Mental Abuse”
If your child lives with you and depends on you for everything, they will in turn believe everything you tell them. If you tell them things to keep them from the other parent and the other half of their family – they will believe what you tell them, if you tell them the same thing over and over. If the things you are telling them are untruths, and you keep telling them over and over, then my friend you are committing “ Parental Alienation ” –
“ Mental Abuse”.
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When you alienate your child from those that you no longer love or even like for that matter, you are decreasing their ability to survive in this world.
Our Children are here for us to teach and love - not to own and control.
Our mission is to provide information that will help you become a better parent by allowing your child their birthright.
Your responsibility is to give your child the room to grow, love and become what they can. If you take away one WHOLE half of their being, you are keeping them from becoming what they have the ability to become.
EXAMPLE
If you manage to keep your children from their daddy for 3 years, and tell them everyday;
- “Your Daddy Don't Love You or He Would be Here With You”
- “Your Daddy Has A New Family, He Don't Want You Anymore”
- “Your Daddy Left You with Nothing to Eat and No Clothes to Wear”
- “Your Daddy Ain't Even Paying His Child Support”
- “Your Daddy isn't Coming this Week, He Has Other Things to do”
- “Your Daddy is Bad”
- “Your Daddy was Mean to Me”
- “Your Daddy is a Terrible Man”
You have created a life for them that consists of you telling them what you want them to know, them trusting you cause you are who you are and them having no idea what is happening to them.
They grow up being very hurt and angry, and they don't even know why.
Give your children the truth, allow them to grow and they will love you forever…tell them lies, hold them back and they will grow to resent you when they are grown.
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